plays a key role in his life.
(both men and women, although this problem is more common in males) their own plans for his wife and even natural law ignores him. Here is a term that experts and psychologists to the problem as the "sexual jealousy" is.
this is the cynicism with which he is associated with.
What is sexual jealousy?All of us have experienced jealousy in everyday life. The feeling of "jealousy" is a common experience among all human beings, but because of the reaction of each of us, this feeling is totally different.is.
Emotional components: feelings of pain, anger, anger, sadness, jealousy winning, fear, griefIntellectual component (cognitive): resentment, blame, competition and rivalry with peers, worry about their body image, self-pity and sympathyBehavioral components: body weakness, trembling and sweating, constant questioning about themselves and trying to ensure, along with anger and aggressive responses
Inner fear, because of the extreme jealousy
Sometimes extreme jealousy and a keen interest in the relationship between couples in love or loving words, this jealousy represents an inner fear, fear of betrayal, the loss of a spouse or rejection is more rooted in low self-esteem. Most people feel threatened by the loss of an important relationship, emotional or experiencing a complex reaction called romantic jealousy are supported. The jealous person aware of the damage caused by the emotional disconnection, and this knowledge determines how to react husband or wife. The reaction to meddle in privacy, restrict or wife with aggressive reactions occur.
Jealous of the pointlessness of marriage
If not noticed or with his jealous person emotionally violent, arrogant and harsh attitude or not going well, he undoubtedly wife jealous of the relationship between verbal and non-verbal communication decreases over time and disgust loving relationships marriage is created.
the divorce.
Bore the
In addition to jealous spouses also breached the marital problems in social relations.show your friends and family.his wife, while a woman is talking, assessment and believe that they must care for his wife to quickly understand the possible events.was unwise to escape from this problem and achieve peace through a relationship with the opposite sex that he understands hide!
This behavior is not true.
Some women think that provoke jealousy husband, a good way to strengthen his love. But is this correct behavior?
What can we do for you?
Encounter with reality
It is better to try than to all events or circumstances which are negative and threatening, you become optimistic and cognitive change your beliefs. To achieve this step, if you feel threatened Ask yourself: what evidence there is a risk in this regard? What reasons do you have social connections wife is in trouble?
Why does your wife constantly Czech mobile phone are you doing? Is that really my behavior, the situation does not deteriorate?
Of inner speech (mental) use positiveThe feeling in there when you start, remember that your partner loves you as a woman utmost respect and importance to the relationship between the family and marriage. Review with your loved one and you do not have any reason to pay attention to these thoughts.
From his wife to make sure you
One of the best ways that can help you to treat this problem, is to make sure your spouse. Make sure that not too excuses and blame your spouse and not put him under pressure. Otherwise, it will also help him solve this problem.
Living with a spouse who suffers from sexual jealousy
Sometimes you may have to live with the wife of your basic human rights (such as phone calls to relatives and acquaintances, go out shopping alone, etc.) are excluded, it is very difficult and painful. The following recommendations are offered to the spouses of these people:
See the problem from another perspective
Keep in mind that sexual jealousy is a sign of love to your spouse. If the relationship with your spouse did not care, did not create these problems. Instead of an immune response against the disease show your partner try to understand him and support him.
Be careful of your behaviorIf you see that your spouse than some behaviors (such as talking to strangers, men or women, telephone conversations with colleagues of the opposite sex at home, go out of the house alone (for the ladies) and special sensitivities, before the difficulties increase, the occurrence of these behaviors to avoid.
Reassure your partnerAt every opportunity you get to be your partner how much you love him and why he chose to live together? Regular use of this method and permanent assurances to his wife, as well as talking about the good future that awaits your common life will improve your relationship with your spouse is all.
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