All mothers and fathers in a common wish, and it is polite kids.But for a
preliminary mannered kids what is necessary and what is it that should be noted?Environmental conditions and behavior that led to the children to be polite What?Some families are so polite sometimes your kids are sensitive to extremes valley are stretched and do not know what age their children are and what are the requirements? Children 8 years old and probably still does not know the customs funeral ... but over time and with educational practices and behavior that you must understand what Where appropriate behavior. The introduction of literature being wise and pious children find them in the aftermath of the child. Being polite starts from the understanding of the law.
Why my child is swearing?One of the reasons obscenities at children, the environment around the child, the parents and family to family and friends and television and is not suitable for child day care centers and ... as it should and the behavior affects his word. Another reason children can be insulted that they can not control their anger and swearing in fact, a kind of anger and verbal aggression to them, such as where the child in a state of rage beating or throwing something and so on. In this case, the impact caused by the inability to control anger in children.
A model called the parentsAlthough the basic pattern of behavior of the child, the parents, but these days many children's programs, to a certain age were not prepared for that specific period, and a wide range of one-year-old children to teenagers these programs to see inappropriate literature transferred to their children. Computer games and cartoons are sometimes inappropriate to teach children. On the other hand, your child may be in kindergarten or even family gatherings cousin and his cousin inappropriate words to learn. Viewing videos and larger series dedicated to the children's ages, certainly would be bad and the transmission is improper literature to kids.
Obscenities children for the first timeOne of the most important aspects of children's mental needs, the need to attract the attention of people, and especially parents. This requires attention, such as the birth of other children, family disputes and ... More too. So be careful if children understand that by profanity will not be able to get your attention. Try the early stages, but if you ignore the insults child neglect strategy did not work and the next time the child saw repeat the word profanity, you have no choice but to very serious talk with your child.
If the swearing in publicIf
neglect and advise the child did not reply to any family or friends in
the community, children from inappropriate word used, first of all, try
to keep your control. Remember that all those who are guests in it anyway so or will be faced with such a problem. Not panic and do not try to hide it, or change. Smile
and say something before others say, "To hell with the kids this day
and age, from anywhere learn a thing without realizing they use." After this step Note that you do not fast in public with your child and do not humiliate him.
When children obscenities continuesYou may also apply all our recommendations so far, but still your child to continue obscenities. In this case, have the right to correct inappropriate behavior of the ways to reward and punish him. Speak with your child and tell him that if swearing and using inappropriate words, he'll be punished.The punishment should be given to the child's age and his insistence on Namnasbsh behavior to be determined. You can ask him a few minutes after each insult go to his room and stay there until such time only 5 or 10 minutes elapse. If he can continue to conduct or restrictions Consider, for example, depriving them of seeing his favorite program or launch the recreation and parks to cancel.
Polite pranksWhen children obscenities continuesYou may also apply all our recommendations so far, but still your child to continue obscenities. In this case, have the right to correct inappropriate behavior of the ways to reward and punish him. Speak with your child and tell him that if swearing and using inappropriate words, he'll be punished.The punishment should be given to the child's age and his insistence on Namnasbsh behavior to be determined. You can ask him a few minutes after each insult go to his room and stay there until such time only 5 or 10 minutes elapse. If he can continue to conduct or restrictions Consider, for example, depriving them of seeing his favorite program or launch the recreation and parks to cancel.
You can also stated ways, verbal and practical respect for children to use other ways:
How to care for it? And it is important to respect their efforts and their efforts are careful to teach himself.
* Find out about the best and worst things that you can do the body, ask him.
* With a few simple rules to keep the relationship good your set installed in the room to see if anyone was against it's out and a reminder.
* In your spare time to go party or parties, to nursing homes, etc. Check your kids learn practical literature.
* One of the reasons for your everyday behavior such as prayer, say hello to others and ... the courtesy know why they explain to him.
How to care for it? And it is important to respect their efforts and their efforts are careful to teach himself.
* Find out about the best and worst things that you can do the body, ask him.
* With a few simple rules to keep the relationship good your set installed in the room to see if anyone was against it's out and a reminder.
* In your spare time to go party or parties, to nursing homes, etc. Check your kids learn practical literature.
* One of the reasons for your everyday behavior such as prayer, say hello to others and ... the courtesy know why they explain to him.
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